When you have grandchildren (and Goldens), there are times when you go an extra mile that would not have been traveled with your own children. For example, sweet Asher doesn’t like his crust on the cinnamon/sugar toast served at Nanny’s before school. So, the crust is removed and offered to the Goldens (Gus was nearby)…win-win!
Of course, back when my kids were little, my own plate was pretty full with parenting, teaching and additional college classes. If asked to remove crusts, I probably would have suggested they cut it in half and eat their way towards the offensive edges! Poor babies! They probably thought I was being heartless!
Being retired allows me to have the extra time to “cut the crusts.” At our Morning Meetings, where we discuss our day, I will often say to Mac, “Today I HAVE TO…no GET TO…” go or do something! I am blessed with making a choice! Truly, most every decision is a choice at this point. We marvel at the ability to choose our activities and commitments instead of having the non-negotiables of earlier years. We are grateful.
These days, when Asher asks for something, I ask myself, “Why not?” If there is no good reason, we proceed.
Bake cookies? Yes!
Play soccer in the yard? Yes!
Create a fort? Absolutely!
And so it goes…
This attitude has penetrated my entire life. Why would I say “No” when saying “Yes” is a viable option? My children would ask, “Where was this mom when we were young?” It seems I was preparing to be a retired grandmother!!!
