Day 1348

We said goodbye to a dear, senior friend today. We were not in town, but she requested a FaceTime. Although Gus was not there with me, she knew he was there in spirit. Two other loved ones were present alongside myself as we took turns sharing our love. My heart hurt, but my smile was real.

There are times when I question my ability to say farewell over and over. It has nothing to do with strength or faith…it is facing each time with a smile and eyes that share what they have meant to me. It doesn’t get any easier.

Accepting the fact that my senior friends will not be with me forever is something that must be accepted. The Golden Boys actually look for them, as we pass their empty rooms, but seem to realize they need to love the next senior down the hall. Their acceptance is a comfort and supports me as we move on.

It is not that the sadness diminishes with each goodbye, it is that the circle of life becomes something more easily embraced. These folks have lived long lives and most are ready.

Like dear Linda, they depart but leave a wave of wisdom, love and memories in their wake. What a parting gift.

What an honor to be invited for one more chance to tell someone they are loved. What an honor to hear those words returned. Therapy Dogging is not always moments of happiness, but they always have elements of love. Today was no exception.