Day 1445

What is it about the young that makes us feel protective and magnanimous? Sam, and the older brothers, allow the pups a great margin for mistakes. The pups can grab a bone, push through a doorway to be first and bite an ear without reproach. Humans seem to have the same feelings towards “littles.”

When my own grandson was an infant, toddler and preschooler, he could do no wrong. Except for safety issues, he was allowed to explore, make a variety of messes and reign supreme. Most every need and demand were met! At eight years, this philosophy continues at Nanny’s House!

Outside the confines of a grandparent’s home, there comes a time and an age when the “young” must learn “toe the line.” As a parent and educator, I learned that line was different for each young one. Knowing that, fairness had to dominate every setting. Keeping those plates spinning has always been a challenge for me!

When the young (two- and four-legged) have not reached the age of responsibility, it is so much easier and gratifying to cut any slack needed. Perhaps that is the feeling of protection and acceptance that follows them like a cloud. As they mature, a zigzag line is drawn in the sand that decides independence from dependence. What a dance for adults who are trying to do the right thing.

To me, the bottom line is to simply love them. Mistakes are made but, if a foundation of love is evident, the young will spread their wings gracefully and with confidence. Soon enough, they become the guides for the next generation.

Watching my Golden Halo, I can only hope that I have done as well with my own charges through the years.