Day 1278

My Goldens follow me everywhere! Upstairs, the basement, outside…puppy shadows are behind every door! Although I have to watch for tripping hazards , the boys bring me so much comfort. They seem to be comforted in my presence as well, so it is a win-win for everyone!

We encounter a number of individuals in our lives who bring us comfort. I am beyond grateful for those friends and family. When I am concerned or need advice, these special guides and mentors are there to calm the waters…and it works every time. In addition, they can make me feel safe and grounded. How do they do that????

These special folks have a few things in common. They are wise, caring and calm. Relying on their wisdom and abundant love, they offer a safe haven for my heart. When these people are part of your life, hang on tight.

Looking at my Goldens surrounding me, I know I am one of those individuals for them. That is a gift. I give to them freely and love how they are calmed by my presence…no matter what! So, the question arises…”How can I transfer that “Golden Feeling” to others. The answer comes easily. It is empathy. When you place yourself in others’ shoes, you can feel their need. Advice, support and caring are easily offered because you know just how they feel!

Step into someone’s angst, fear or even joy and embrace their actual feelings. Then, you can honestly support them because you know their inner feelings on a visceral level.

I am a work in progress, but the Golden Boys let me practice on them every day!